Friday, April 29, 2011

Real Life Barbie

 Many young children, myself included, have played with and loved Barbie dolls for years. Barbie's been on the top selling toys list for decades and it doesn't look like she won't be popular for a very long time. She has been a friend and role model for many children. Yes, it's great that she's successful in love and her careers and she can be a great role model in that way. But in terms of body image, she's been destroying us. Her body shape is impossible to have!    

If she was life sized, which is shown to the right, she would be awkwardly tall and completely disproportionate! But in doll form, she looks like the most beautiful woman alive. If all girls see are women that portrayed as beautiftul with literally impossible looks, we are setting ourselves up for disaster. If we are told what is beautiful and then can never ever achieve it, there is going to be some sense of insufficiency.

When I saw this picture I thought to myself "But in reality, is this Barbie pictured beautiful?" I think she has a false sense of beauty. The makers have taken every positive attribute a woman can have and exaggerated them completely so that she has the smallest waist, the largest breasts, the longest legs, and so on; but it makes her unattractive ultimately! Again, it's like we're setting society up for failure by showing unattainable and untrue representations of beauty to children.

Friday, April 22, 2011

Shake It for Me Girl

Last night I was driving in the car, listening to the radio and singing along, and looking at the beautiful scenery that surrounds Ithaca, NY.  I wasn't really thinking about what I was doing, but instead just enjoying the sunset and mindlessly singing along to the country song on the radio. As I'm singing along, I finally realize the lyrics to the song that I was singing. The chorus goes:




Shake it for the young bucks sittin' in the honky-tonks


For the rednecks rockin' till the break of dawn
For the DJ spinnin' that country song
Come on, come on, come on
Shake it for the birds, shake it for the bees
Shake it for the catfish swimming down deep in the creek
For the crickets and the critters and the squirrels
Shake it to the moon, shake it for me girl, aww

Country girl, shake it for me girl, 
Shake it for me girl, shake it for me
Country girl, shake it for me girl, 
Shake it for me girl, shake it for me

I snapped into reality when I was hearing over and over "Shake it for me girl" in a man's voice and was slightly disturbed. It never dawned on me: we all know the lyrics and sing them, but don't really consciously want to know the meaning. On the surface, it's about a guy trying to get a girl to dance. Under the surface, a girl, is becoming a sexual object for a man. She doesn't have a name and it's totally for his benefit. A lot of popular songs are like this.  I think that subconsciously we know what it means and that's the way the media and art works. In class we talked about where men learn their privilege in our society. I think it lies within the small things we hear, see, and even go along with everyday, even if we don't realize that these are the culprits of assigning privilege. 

Sunday, April 3, 2011

Sex Myths

There are a ton of myths about sex out there and even more people that believe them. We talked in class about some of these myths. People actually believe that you can't get pregnant if it is your first time having sex, or that you can't contract an STD from oral sex. This guy: 


is mad about these myths.  His video is entertaining to watch, but also points something out. We should be angry that there are so many people still believing these myths. They are only going to lead to unwanted pregnancy and/or STDs.  I have found that most of the people who believe these lies are teens. I believe that one way this can change is if the sex education system is revamped and started to be taught at a younger age. If kids are going to have sex, whether they are taught sex education or not, we should at least do them a service by teaching them the truth and give them options and facts so they can make better decisions. A few years ago I participated in a debate about sex education and in all of my readings, I found that countries (such as a the Netherlands) that had a more comprehensive sex education that started at a younger age, had lower levels of teen pregnancies and STDs. 

Do you think that these myths have arose from an absence of adequate sex education?